What is self-confidence?

 



Whenever we try to find the root cause of problems and crises in our lives, then, again and again, the same result comes before us, which is a lack of our self-confidence. Jealousy, anger, laziness, and longing also generate from there. Self-confidence is the key to achieving happiness and success in life but do we understand the true meaning of self-confidence? When any task or work comes before us, we make sure that we will be successful in this task. We also believe that no one else can succeed except us. So is it self-confidence? But I would say that this arrogance. So self-confidence is a form of arrogance. But audacity always takes birth through struggle. So is self-confidence is a reason for the battle. The world has prooves many times that more great people continue to come into this world. When we believe that we must succeed, we call it self-confidence, but on what basis do we say that we will follow, based on our experience or based on our knowledge?

 

Experience is the truth of our past, and it this not necessary that it be proved right in the coming time. We also know that knowledge has no limits, so how do we know that we have all the experience we need. That's means if expertise or knowledge is the basis of self-confidence, then that base is false. So the question is stays strong "what is the basic form of self-confidence."

When we believe in ourselves, then it is called self-confidence. But the question is, do we know ourselves or not? We do not know how many times we have said something that we should not. How many times we have been angry without knowing the results. How many times has it happened that our dearest friend becomes our enemy? If we realize ourself why do our decisions change?

The face that we see in the mirror everyday is ours, but we don't have any idea of mind behind that face. When you think deeply, you will immediately know that you are just a combination of others' assumptions. We always live and feel the way society has taught us. We do not even know ourselves. That is why we have arrogance, but we do not have self-confidence. Self-confidence is nothing but the name to introduce oneself to one's mind and intellect.

Self-confidence is a superpower. Once you start to believe in yourself, the magic starts happening.


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