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What causes quarrel.

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Everyone in society is always worried about the increase or decrease of their influence. Unknowingly, everyone keeps thinking about how my impact can be maintained; whatever I say, that thing should be final. In any case, my statement should be obeyed, meaning that my power should be maintained and my influence should also be maintained. Such a mentality is found in everyone, even if you are unknowingly a victim of this thinking. After all, what is this effect, what is the thought of having an influence style?  From the moment we start worrying about our influence, that moment we fall victim to our airs and stubbornness. We do not even know, and we get affected by the feeling of force; whoever does not listen to us or argues with us, then we also see his simple arguments as a challenge to our power. He starts to look like an enemy. We get down on erasing it. Day and night, we start planning for that person's downfall; a result of his influence is seen, which we have never imagined.

Reason for man's apathy.

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Apathy is the feeling of the heart in which we are not interested in anything. We do not get excited about doing anything. When apathy becomes worse when it reaches its climax, it becomes a disease of the mind; the man starts liking death more than life. We all experience indifference at some point in life. The heart filled with despair, and we abandon the work. Our indifference is mainly for some time, so we do not recognize the loss due to it, but apathy gradually takes the form of habit and repeatedly leaves all tasks incomplete. Does it not happen to us?  Apathy is the name of the state of mind in which we see the cause of our problems. We say society is terrible, servant or master is wrong, husband and wife's behaviour is bad, life's situation is unfavourable, time is not supporting us. When, despite the cause of sorrow, we have no way to change it, we wonder how we can change the time and change the circumstances. That is, we consider ourselves selfless, which leads to in

Difference between Love and Attraction

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What is Attraction? Attraction means the charm that we cannot be miss. Such a strain that we cannot control. To get something, we put everything at stake. The reason for that attachment can be a person, an authority, an asset, or an item. Just as iron does not get rid of magnets, we do not get rid of our attachment in the same way. We believe that our attachment is the most profound form of our love. Is it not true? Do we not consider attraction as love? What is the difference between love and attraction? We always think that our attraction is our love, but we will know that there is a primary difference between love and attraction if we feel deeply. When there is love, we wish for someone's happiness, and when there is attraction, we want for our needs. Just thinking so much, we immediately understand the difference between love and attraction. When we have passion for a person, we try to give pleasure to them, and when we have an attraction for them, try to get self-pleasure thro

Why does one insult another.

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Insult, why does one insult another. We also insult many people without any reason. We have even been humiliated many times. Everyone in the world offends someone like a husband insults his wife, a father insults his children, a boss insults his employees that is, whoever is strong, offends the weak, if we are powerful, we fight against the insult, and if we do not have the power to fight, then we tolerate that, consider himself weak and helpless. We feel small, and it seems as if our soul has been crushed. But why does anyone insult someone? We were saying that when humiliation occurs, a person feels his weakness, and the sense of weakness crushes a person, becomes weaker and weaker, gets hurt by the habit of being tortured, and our self-confidence is hurt. And after that, a person starts seeking his pleasure in wrong things, and he becomes sick from the mind, but why does a person do this to another person, what the insulter wants to prove. The offending person tries to prove himself

7 little things that change your life.

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1.  Do not make fun of others.   Man is a bizarre creature and he does not look at the people below him with good eyes. He ridicules them and says to them repeatedly that nothing can happen to them. You will not be able to do anything in the future. When a man possesses wealth, he does not respect others, but he forgets that there is something more powerful than him, and that is time. Does nobody know when the time will change?. Coal also turns into a diamond over time. Therefore, never ridicule anyone in your life.   2.  What is ego? Karma, pride and arrogance all sound the same, but they all have different meanings and results. All three begin with love, love for oneself. Hard work gives rise to pride, and success brings satisfaction, that it is fine, but when this feeling becomes ego, it becomes a problem because the worst end is of the egoist. The puzzle for a human being is identifying whether the ego has awakened and its suppression is necessary. As long as you are happy

What is self-confidence?

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  Whenever we try to find the root cause of problems and crises in our lives, then, again and again, the same result comes before us, which is a lack of our self-confidence. Jealousy, anger, laziness, and longing also generate from there. Self-confidence is the key to achieving happiness and success in life but do we understand the true meaning of self-confidence? When any task or work comes before us, we make sure that we will be successful in this task. We also believe that no one else can succeed except us. So is it self-confidence? But I would say that this arrogance. So self-confidence is a form of arrogance. But audacity always takes birth through struggle. So is self-confidence is a reason for the battle. The world has prooves many times that more great people continue to come into this world. When we believe that we must succeed, we call it self-confidence, but on what basis do we say that we will follow, based on our experience or based on our knowledge?   Experience is th

Change your vision not your view.

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"Many Things That Seem Threatening In The Dark Become Welcoming When We Shine Light On Them" Often people are dissatisfied with the condition around them. A lot of grievances are complaints that occur to people. Whoever looks at it, it will get to say that what is happing? Anybody reacting like this is nothing, but due to his/her Vision, that means the problem is not in the view, preferably in Vision. It depends on us how we look at our time and the state of society. Our perspective is the only way for us to understand the world. Any event we find as dear and unpleasant is a work of our eyesight. have you ever watch the shapes of clouds flying in the sky? whatever shape they made, we can define it from our perspective, for someone it seems like a lion and for some other it looks like a rabbit. HOW? It's only because of our view. Let's try to understand the nature of Vision through a story. Once upon a time, a Guru used to live in an ashram with two of his disciples. O